If you thought to be someone else you better shout shut down the dreamed. There is no point on being so hard to be someone else just to make your self being acceptance by someone you admired badly. I learnt something precious from someone that I do admired but as a friends not more than that. To be truth he was so lucky man on this earth to have chance to travel all around the world, meet up new peeps, learn new culture, and exploring much stuff that was so incredible.
To be honest I by myself actually don’t believe that I can meet this kind of people for real. He shares lot of story and things with me until I felt that I was at the placed that he story to me. He once told me that, I may got the chance someday just maybe the situation not suit for me to get the chances as am still need to study and having only a short semester breaks. Well, I told him that I would wait for that chance or I will find the chance by myself and he suddenly grinned at me and laugh.
For real, I met him at one of social chat website. We already know each other since the last two years and apparently we still closed until now. Due to different time zone, we had specific our suitable time that we both agreed to chat together. He was always being nice to me. Actually, before wrote about him in this blog. I just talk to him and he said something that made me felt good and he gave some encourage word to me.
He told me a story about a man who turns himself to be someone else to make the women he admired and loved for ages fall in love with him. He want to be the person that the girl love so much until the changes that the man made turn bad and made him hurt more and more painful. Each second the girl love him so much after the changes he made but at the end the man realised the love that he received was fake and not with honest and sincere. You know why, because he missed being his real self.
After the story finished, I gave my opinion to him that sometimes we need to change a bit for someone we love and care. And suddenly he responded to my opinion and replied if you think you already find your true love after the changes you made on yourself it’s not a real love and please just let him or her go. Because someone that loves you will accept you just the way you are and not after the changes you made. Just like your parent that will love you so badly no matter how ugly, bad, evil or stupid you are. They love you as you was their children. Not because you being someone that they want.
But at some point, changes are needed sometimes due to be a better person …
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